The Unbinding

Transform the way you
love at the root

A retreat (ceremonial experience) that helps you move

From Wounds to Wisdom

This is not about learning how to love “better.”
This is about understanding why love has hurt—
and healing it at the root.

You are not here to carry pain forever.
You are here to awaken the wisdom within it.

A Sacred Invitation to Those of You Who Are Ready…

to uncover what shaped your vision of love…

to choose love again—with clarity, tenderness, and power.

Have you ever asked yourself why the same painful patterns keep showing up in your relationships no matter how much inner work you’ve done?

Do you find yourself loving too much or not enough, chasing connection or shutting down, giving your all and still feeling unseen?

This is not because something is wrong with you. It is because somewhere along the way, you inherited a story about love that was never truly yours.

This retreat is not about fixing you. It’s about remembering who you are beneath the wounds, and gently unbinding from the beliefs, roles, and expectations that never belonged to you.

As I discovered in my own journey, we are never broken. We are being called to True Loving. Every painful pattern in love is a whisper from the soul, inviting us to see, to feel, to release, and to reclaim. Not from blame. Not from shame. But from deep compassion and sacred remembrance.

What You’ll Experience

This is not a generic session. It’s a soul-anchored, ceremonial retreat personalized for your unique story. Through deep inquiry, reflection, and one sacred shamanic ceremony, you’ll begin to unravel and release the patterns that have shaped your experience of love—from the root.

Together, we will:

Uncover the Blueprint of Love in Your Family

You’ll explore how early family dynamics and ancestral experiences shaped your inner map of love—what you’ve been taught it should look and feel like.
During the ceremony, you’ll be guided into a deep clearing of generational burdens around love. Energies you’ve been unconsciously carrying on behalf of those who came before you. With the support of the Sacred Energies of Life, we free your heart and spirit from inherited patterns, creating space for healing across past, present, and future generations.

Break Free from Cultural and Media Conditioning

You’ll examine the subtle and not-so-subtle ways that media, culture, and society have shaped your expectations of love often replacing truth with fantasy, perfectionism, or performance.
Within the ceremony, we clear the energetic imprints from the collective consciousness. Those invisible forces that tell you how love should look, what you must be to receive it, and who you should become to be “worthy.” By releasing these layers, we make space for the emergence of your own authentic vision of love, one rooted not in conditioning, but in deep truth.

Reclaim Your Truth and Authentic Self from Peer and Social Expectations

We’ll reflect on how peer approval, friendships, and social dynamics influenced your sense of love, belonging, and self-worth.
Within the ceremony, you will be lovingly guided to reclaim the parts of yourself that were given away in exchange for inclusion or acceptance, the pieces lost in the longing to be safe, loved, seen, appreciated and truly included. We tend to the deep fear of being cast out, and the pain of not belonging. With reverence, we honor what once kept you protected, and release what no longer serves the truth of who you are.

Rewrite the Hidden Beliefs That Govern Your Love Life

You’ll uncover how institutions like religion, education, and culture shaped your understanding of love often using shame, guilt, obedience, or sacrifice as tools of control.
In the ceremony, we will tend to root wounds created by personal trauma and the internalized pressure to follow rules that were never written for your soul.
With love we welcome your Sacred Rebel, the part of you that remembers Divine Truth and is ready to stand in it, even if it means stepping away from what’s familiar. This is where love becomes freedom: soft, sacred, true, and powerful. Powerful enough to say yes. Powerful enough to say no. The “knowledge” you’ve gathered about love, what it should be, what you must do to earn it is released. And in its place, you return to the quiet wisdom of your heart…the part of you that has always known what love truly is.

What’s Included

4-hour private ceremonial retreat via Zoom or in-person in North Carolina
Guided use of the Reconstructing Medicine Wheel to map your personal love blueprint
Art, writing, and reflection practices to bring hidden patterns to light
A Shamanic Healing Ceremony for release, healing, integration, and renewal across ancestral, collective, karmic, and personal levels
Personalized post-retreat integration email and suggested practices
Priority access to future offerings and retreat discounts

Investment & Format

Online Retreat: $750

In-Person Retreat (North Carolina): $950

Each retreat includes:

A Personal Preparation Process
Thoughtful guidelines to support your intentions, emotional readiness, and ceremonial space.

Ceremonial Materials (in person only)
Beautifully curated tools and items to accompany your experience.

Digital Journal & Workbook
A beautifully designed companion filled with reflective prompts to help you revisit and integrate your journey.

Personalized Practices to Take Home
Clear, custom recommendations rooted in your archetype and inner process to continue the transformation.

20-Minute Follow-Up Call (3 Days After Your Retreat)
A gentle check-in to support integration, answer questions, and nourish what has begun.

Is This You?

You keep ending up in the same painful patterns: giving too much, shrinking or silencing yourself, chasing love, or closing your heart to avoid being hurt. And each time, it leaves you feeling unseen, unheard, unchosen, or unimportant to the other.

You’ve tried to make sense of it. You’ve done the work. But deep down, you still feel confused, tired… maybe even heartbroken. Like something must be wrong with you.

But what if it’s not you at all? What if what’s really hurting you is the story about love that you inherited a story shaped by your family, your culture, your past lives… and by generations who didn’t know any better? You didn’t choose these beliefs. You were taught them quietly, painfully, without knowing. And you’ve been trying to love through them ever since.

This retreat is for you if you feel the ache of those stories… and you’re ready to lay them down.

If you long for love that feels clear, kind, and true not as something you have to earn, but something you are already worthy of then this is your first step home.

Your Journey Begins with a
Free 20-Minute Consultation

Before your retreat, we’ll meet one-on-one to hear what’s calling for attention in your love story.

Together, we’ll create a personalized, intentional container to ensure your retreat is as safe, sacred, and transformative as possible.